Ashton Hawkins
Ashton’s story begins with her. A beautiful, loving, selfless girl. She truly has the biggest heart and always puts others before herself. Ever since she was born, Ashton has been such a light in her family's life, with the most contagious giggle. Her love of life, for her sisters, helping others, and being so giving and selfless are just some of the things that make Ashton so special.
Ashton’s cancer story didn’t start with a brain scan. It began weeks before her brain cancer was discovered. Her symptoms began with dizziness, followed by terrible headaches where her skull and spine meet, and bouts of vomiting. After consecutive weeks of headaches, Ashton's mom, Amanda, asked where exactly her head hurt, and she pointed to the lower back side of her head. Amanda says, "That was the first time the ‘C’ word ran across my mind. But as we sometimes do, I told myself, 'No way, not us. This can’t be cancer.'" Ashton's mom knew that was not a normal spot for a headache. But then she reasoned that the headaches were getting so frequent, and the medicine hadn’t been helping, and she would keep a really close eye on things.
After cheer practice one night, Ashton’s head started hurting so badly that she was screaming. It was at this point that Ashton’s mom brought her to the ER at Cincinnati Children’s Liberty, where they were sent to urgent care, and their concerns were dismissed…no scans or bloodwork were done, only an eye exam. Their remedy: “Drink Mountain Dew, at least she’s not throwing up.”
A few weeks later, on Ashton’s second day of school, she got sick yet again. Amanda called her husband and said, “We need to get her to the emergency room now.” They called Ashton’s doctor's office and asked they call ahead to the ER, and just two hours later, our lives were changed forever…the initial CT scan showed a 3x4cm mass in the back of her brain, right by her spinal cord.
August 22, 2023, is etched in the mind of Ashton’s family forever. The phone rang and the doctor on the line, “we found a mass.” Amanda recalls, “Uncontrollable tears started streaming down my face. I couldn’t breathe, I couldn’t talk. I’d known. And I hadn’t done anything sooner because I’d kept telling myself it wasn’t cancer, it couldn’t be.”
Within 24 hours, they learned Ashton had an aggressive brain cancer and was to undergo a nine-hour surgery in just three days.